I woke today seeing a large fork in the road of life. It was more prominent that other forks I’ve seen in my 50 years of navigating life’s highways.
Everyone eventually comes upon this fork. Yet, this morning, because of the crisis created in life, it loomed bigger and beckoned prompt decision.
The road separated to the left and to the right.
The road to the left was paved in the color of dole. People followed neatly in line. They donned their masks. They carried their subsidy checks in freshly hand sanitized hands. Neatly packaged rations of toilet paper, and chicken under their arms. The path was smooth, well-trodden, the evidence of thousands passing down this fork. The road sign pointing to the left said “Victim.”
The road to the right was not nearly as smooth. It was rocky, and in some areas, not well marked. A small sign, barely visible, hidden in the shadows of overgrowth pointed to the right and said “Victor.”
When you look back on your life, and you remember today and the decision before you at the fork in the road, will you have merely survived? Or will you have thrived?
Has the experience of the first few months of 2020 softened you or hardened you? Have you even noticed? Did you even see the signs at the fork in the road?
The road you chose is up to you and you alone.
When you feel stuck, when your life is stagnating, it takes courage to turn down a different path. It takes effort and resolve to break free and walk a different path. Traveling a different road gives you a new perspective, an interlude to the mundane, and forces you to be alert and to learn.
Stop waiting for the instructions. You already know what to do.
I know you want to hear it. I know you need to hear it. But, no one is going to tell you it’s finally “safe.” It will never be completely safe. That’s the whole point of life. Growth does not occur in restraints. When you’re not feeling safe, remember, you’re growing.
Many voices can be heard beckoning you down the well beaten path of ease. Sure, you could live out your life on the couch. It’s softer and safer there, quarantined upon your familiar couch.
Stop waiting for someone to re-train you, re-hire you or even reassure you. Reassurance is only momentary. Stop waiting for the next “expert” to change your life with an enlightened YouTube video. The herd will never be immunized. That’s why you were given you own immune system. Stop waiting for a vaccine, a magic pill, or the sound of “all clear.” It will never be all clear. Lean into the challenge.
Stop waiting for someone to re-open your life. No one is coming to save you. The sad but honest truth is no one really cares. So, stand up, step out, work a bit harder.
It’s up to you to protect, provide and steer your carriage down the road. Do not give up that greatest of all your gifts, your ability to chose. Yes, you must chose. If your ability to chose is taken, you’ll never see it again in your lifetime.
The road will never be the same, it never is. The road you chose today determines the level to which you just survive or thrive. Chose to thrive.
Most of our greatest learning occurs, not in the classroom, but in deep discussion of truth with our peers. Much of truth is discovered or unearthed upon the battlefield of controversy, and is only kept alive by banter and sharp exchange with our peers.
This evening on PeriScope, we talked about the 10 things you can do to stay motivated on your low-carb lifestyle. A number of great questions were asked including:
How much carbohydrate should be restricted?
What labs should you be monitoring regularly?
What’s a normal blood sugar?
Why is Dr. Nally freezing in Denver?
Is fermented food good for you?
Why should you eat pickles and kimchi even when you’re not pregnant?
And, much much more . . . It’s like a college ketogenic course on overdrive . . . for FREE!!!
You can see the PeriScope with the comments rolling in real-time here: katch.me/docmuscles
There are three constants in life: change, choice & principles. Change, ironically acting as a constant, is the variable that we have limited control over. Accepting that change is going to happen, that change is constant, and making choices to prepare for those changes is the key to success. My last post introduced the 10 Principles of the Ketogenic Lifestyle. This post will discuss choice as a foundation for those principles outlined in the ketogenic lifestyle. Choices are directly influenced by the balance between the mind, the body and the spirit of man.
LIFESTYLE PRINCIPLE 1 – WHEREVER YOU GO, THERE YOU ARE
People seem to get sidetracked off a ketogenic lifestyle for a number of reasons, but the most common I hear is that they were traveling, had company visit or they were on vacation. Successfully living a lifestyle requires that you first know who you are and where you are before you can consistently make good, solid, principle based choices. So I ask, who are you? Are you defined by your job, by your finances, by your travels, by your friends or by your vacations? Each of these experiences is unique. Our experiences place both good and bad before us. I have come to learn over time and countless interactions with people that nothing is coincidental. Everything, good and bad, happen for a reason.
Today’s society teaches the Pleasure Principle. This is the human instinct to seek pleasure and avoid pain, including avoiding painful recollections. We often define ourselves by those things that bring us pleasure. We each go through personal tests, failures and triumphs. Some of us harness all of those experiences for good, others find worsening mental paralysis due to fear of them. We often hide from the painful experiences and attempt to bury or forget them. Food is often involved with many of the experiences of life, and for a significant number of people, the endorphin release from eating a meal, sometimes just the act of chewing, may be the only pleasure one experience in a day, in a week or a in a year. Many people hide from painful recollections behind the simple pleasure produced by the eating of “comfort foods.” Food, and our opportunities to experience pleasure from it’s various flavors, textures and physical stimulus, begin to define us. However, hiding from life’s painful memories with momentary pleasures usually prolongs or makes the problem worse. The ingestion of simple foods containing glucose and fructose, their effect on the liver, and the hedonistic hormonal response is the basis of addiction, and simple carbohydrates provide the perfect fix.
Fascinatingly, when fructose is metabolized in the liver, in the presence of glucose (the basic structure of sugar – one fructose molecule bound to a glucose molecule), the byproduct has a hedonic (pleasure experiencing) effect on the exact same pleasure receptors in the brain that bind to morphine. Yes, that’s why the M&M’s make you forget your troubles and why the Jolly Rancher is so jolly. And, its the same reason you crave another do-nut two hours after you ate the entire baker’s dozen.
Although obesity has been recognized as a disease, our use of foods to celebrate with people or events in life is still a form of pleasure seeking. Excuses to deviate from healthy behavior under the guise of family, vacation, or social requirements, acknowledges our willingness to hide from pain with hedonic drugs like chocolate chip cookies and cotton candy. In fact, it’s usually a welcomed and and expected acceptable excuse.
“Dr. Nally, I can cheat eat and bad, (meals loaded with starch) because I’m on vacation” . . . from my problems. It’s so acceptable, we’ve based movie themes around it.
Healing can only occur when one is willing to confront and talk about the reasons, the real reasons you’d rather experience the endorphins from the do-nuts with your family instead of acknowledge your weakness, stresses, and fears. Many of us are so afraid of where we might be, we avoid acknowledging where and who we are. It takes courage not to take the easy path. And I will be the first to admit, pizza is the easy path and it’s scenic views are decorated with french fry palms and sunset clouds of apple fritters.
“There appears to be a conscience in mankind which severely punishes the man who does not somehow and at some time, at whatever cost to his pride, cease to defend and assert himself, and instead confess himself fallible and human. Until he can do this, an impenetrable wall shuts him out from the living experience of feeling himself a man among men. Here we find a key to the great significance of true, un-stereotyped confession – a significance known in all the initiation and mystery cults of the ancient world, as is shown by a saying from the Greek mysteries: “Give up what thou hast, and thou will receive.” (Carl Jung)
We have a choice about what to eat and when to eat, however, each choice has a reward and/or a consequence.
Points of Focus: Where are you and what are you hiding from? Sharing your weaknesses actually empowers you you overcome them. This can often be accomplished through the simple act of journaling, planing your meals the day before and journaling your successes and failures in that plan the following day. Allowing yourself and others insight into your times of weakness actually brings strength. It allows one to look at the reasons for food choices base on how you feel, and how you felt after the choice. If forces one to think about a choice before it ever has to be made. In my 15 years of medical practice, I have yet to hear a child find fault with a parent who worked tirelessly to make ends meet, admittedly struggled with alcoholism, battled against disease or fought against belittling for a belief. The child has always expressed their admiration of their parent’s courage and understanding of why decisions were made, even when erroneous. It takes courage to admit that wherever you go – there you are.
LIFESTYLE PRINCIPLE 2 – KEEP IT REAL
I no longer believe in coincidence. Whether you have thought about it or not, every interaction you have with others (even our interaction . . . your reading this blog), are not by coincidence. There is a reason. Whether you believe it or not, everything around us testifies that God exists; the Hand of Providence can be seen from the rotation of the earth, planets and stars, the precision of the seasons, the balance of the atmosphere allowing for the perfect pressures and concentration of elements to sustain a life giving breath, to the perfect replication of DNA within billions of cells throughout the body. I’m not trying to get religious, and, no, I can’t prove this through the scientific method . . . But, if the Big Bang started the universe, what started the Big Bang? Where did the first atom or molecule or particle of dust come from? I have a very difficult time accepting that you and I are here by accident, by a chaotic explosion that created order. That implies that there must be a plan, and that plan had to have been set in motion by a Creator. That also implies that that Creator placed solutions to our challenges, including the diseases of civilization, within our grasp and available to those seeking the solutions upon the earth today.
I have seen enough in my medical career to know that simple coincidence has frequently become significantly important, life changing and often life saving. This does not happen by accident and screams loud and clear that there is a plan for you and me. No good father would lock his child in a room without doors or windows or any escape without everything in the room, both good and bad, pointing to the reason the child was in the room, and pointing the way for the child to become his or her best self, physically and emotionally. Life has meaning. It is supposed to. If we get off track, coincidence and interactions lead us back.
“Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone because the Father is with me.” (John 16:32)
The Bible, among other records, records the voices of men and women from years past transcribing their experiences with the Hand of Providence, how that spiritual void was filled, how it helped the with choice and how our lives have deeper meaning and consequence, even amidst significant adversity.
Take a week and look at the synchronicity of your life. Journal about it. Don’t dismiss a second invitation from someone to discuss an opportunity or meet someone your friend thinks could be important to you, open that book that someone left behind on the subway seat beside you. Don’t assume it is meaningless, that some kind person returned your sunglasses or your wallet. Look at the simple interactions and recent relationships. These are the breadcrumbs and the street signs from a loving Creator, a loving Father.
Keeping it real means nothing less than complete authenticity. The last place you want to be is in the first-class seat on the plane to no-where. Have the faith to get off the plane and take the bus, ride your bike, or even swim upstream in the direction you’re supposed to be going. Look for the coincidences, bread crumbs and spiritual street signs in your life.
How does this relate to a ketogenic lifestyle? Every religion or spiritual tradition speaks of a polestar. The polestar is that anchor to which the entire solar system is tied by invisible aerial chords and the engine that powers the universe. Those cords are connected with our own individual polestars. A ketogenic lifestyle is one that encompasses mind, body and spirit. It is a lifestyle that demands that you link and align your personal polestar with the truth inside and around you. It takes both courage and faith, but it brings immeasurable strength and help in achieving your goals. A person out of balance with life is under stress. Chronic stress produces excessive cortisol and other powerful adrenal hormones that displace the body’s and the mind’s endocrinologic balance, leading to weight gain, weight retention, and chronic disease. This often has significant effect externally on the body in processes seen like depression, anxiety, fibromyalgia, and allowing for amplification of inflammation and auto-immune dysfunction. We refer to this inter-relationship in the medical community as psychosomatic and/or viscerosomatic dysfunction, the psyche (the mind) and/or the viscera (internal endocrine organs) directly and adversely influence the function of the soma (the structural body separate from the mind).
“He who does not know himself, does not know anything, but he who knows himself, knows the depth of all things.
” . . . If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” (Book of Thomas the Contender)
Point of Focus: Your life is never without meaning. Keep it real by recognizing that diet alone may not compete your answer for physical health. Having courage and faith allow you to see and embrace the truth that is right in front of you. The Alcoholics Anonymous’ 12 step program only becomes successful when one realistically and courageously applies their faith to align with the truth they have felt all along. For any long-term lifestyle change to take place, one must connect and live the principles before one truly knows they are true. In this way the Ketogenic Lifestyle becomes real.
KetoOS – Drinkable Exogenous Ketones
LIFESTYLE PRINCIPLE 3 – TO cheat, or NOT to cheat, that is the question
I have been asked this question by every patient I have placed on a ketogenic diet at least once and often three or four times throughout the course of our treatment plan. I usually answer this question with a question. “Why do you want to cheat?”
The desire to cheat usually arises form one of three reasons:
You’re not eating enough fat to satiate your appetite and you are truly hungry. The body recognizes that it can use and absorb glucose much faster than fat, as fuel, so it naturally will crave “sweets.” In this case, the case of true hunger, solution is to increase your fat intake. You should be eating at least 50% of your total calories in the form of fat.
Insulin loads are still high, stimulating rebound hunger and hedonistic cravings. You’re either eating too many carbohydrates with your diet or you’re using a sweetener that stimulates insulin without raising blood sugar (See my article The Skinny about Sweeteners).
Cheating with a specific food fulfills a psychological need, feeds an addiction or represents an obligation to fulfill a societal ritual. Journaling helps to identify and break this cycle.
If you are truly in ketosis the cravings to cheat don’t exist, they actually disappear. Other societal rituals, like birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, spiritual ceremonies or rites of passage are often tied to or use food as symbolism. In these cases, the decision to cheat is really yours.
When a person cheats, it can take as many as 3-5 days to get back into ketosis, and for some 2-3 weeks. Carbohydrate cravings will rebound and often be present for up to 72 hours after cheating. You have to decide if cheating is worth 3 days of carbohydrate cravings and 3-7 days of stifled weight loss.
Point of Focus: There are no Ketosis Police! Really. They don’t exist! Dr. Nally will not show up in uniform on your doorstep with a set of handcuffs and a bag of pork rinds. You won’t be arrested for eating bread and those of us who have been following a strict ketogenic lifestyle for years really don don’t mind at all if you decide to cheat. We will smile and we may even ask you how it tastes or if you liked the flavor, but don’t be self-conscious, because when one is in ketosis for a few months, we really don’t crave cheating any longer, and we won’t judge you. And, don’t feel obligated to justify why your cheating, this is a lifestyle. You probably won’t ask me why I chose to wear long sleeves on a hot day in Arizona, for the same reason I won’t ask you why you decided to wear a Speedo.
LIFESTYLE PRINCIPLE 4 – Hunger Management
Life comes at you pretty fast and if you’re not prepared, hunger can bite you. Most people fall off the wagon when they are unprepared for missing a meal on a stressful day. I’ve recently heard the argument that “there is no wagon, so don’t worry about falling off.” This is false security that leaves one unprepared for life events. Pioneers traveled in wagons for two reasons. First, the wagon held supplies essential for survival. Second, wagons usually traveled in wagon trains. This means that there was more than one person on the wagon and there was more than one wagon on the trail with you. Traveling with a wagon train meant you had others on the same trail with the same tools for safety and support.
In the world of fast foot, fast photos and speedy delivery, we often don’t adequately prepare for hunger or cravings. There are some essential hunger management tools for the Ketogenic Lifestyle:
Eat meals containing >50% fat. This, in and of itself, delays hunger and ensures the satiety center of the brain is happy for longer periods of time.
Carry rescue foods with you or keep them at your office or in your fridge at home. These include low-carb nuts like almonds, walnuts, macadamia nuts; Keep hard and string cheese handy for a snack. Use sliced deli-meats with the cheese as a snack when the cravings kick in. Pork Rinds, beef jerky, olives, are great natural food options.
If you have time and can cook, develop your favorite “Fat Bombs“ and have a bag full in the fridge for those cravings.
Having the moral support of a buddy, spouse, friend or work companion who checks on your progress daily, assists with meals and meal choices is priceless. Periscope, a free Twitter based App, has become a means of checking in with your Ketogenic Support group around the world that connects to those you follow on Twitter. You can follow me, @docmuscles, and a number of fascinating health Periscopes that focus on ketogenic, low-carb, whole food paleo approaches: @livinlowcarbman, @_danielleeaton, @kasandrinos, @fatissmartfuel, @domskitchen, @mikemutzel, @keribrewster, @tombilyeu, @glutenfreenj, @paleocomfort.
Being accountable to yourself in a diet journal daily and to your doctor regularly every 1-2 months also helps keep motivation going forward. Jimmy Moore, author and podcaster at the Livin’ La Vida Low-Carb Show has also posted one of the most extensive lists of physicians specializing in ketogenic diets from around the world. You can find that list here.
LIFESTYLE PRINCIPLE 5 – Stress Reduction
Pages and pages can be written about stress reduction. In fact, I’ve written about the chemical responses that stress has on weight gain in my post, Stress. . . The Weight Loss Killer. But there are a few daily essentials that should be added into the Ketogenic Lifestyle to manage stress.
First, are you getting adequate sleep? Remove the television, computer, cell phone, iPad or other electronic distraction from the bedroom. Go to bed at the same time and get up at the same time each day. Give yourself time each day away from being plugged in, logged in or on-line.
Second, over exercising or being malnourished can cause chronic stress. I have a number of patient that have been convinced that they have to work out 60 minutes a day 6-7 days per week. It is essential that you realize muscles need a minimum of 48-72 hours to recover from specific types of exercise. If you run for 60 minutes. It will take your muscles 48 hours to recover from the running. If you do upper body weight lifting, it will take 48-72 hours for those muscles to recover from that weight lifting. Exercising the same muscle group with the same exercise over stresses the muscles and leads to significant chronic stress, spiking the cortisol levels and halting weight loss and raising cholesterol & triglycerides. Under eating or fasting to starvation has the same effect.
Third, mild intensity (40% of your maximal exertion level) exercise 2-3 days a week was found in a recent study to lower cortisol and decrease over-all stress, raising serotonin and dopamine in the brain; however, moderate intensity (60% of your maximal exertion level) to high intensity (80% of your maximal exertion level) exercise was found to raise it. A simple 20 minute walk, 2-3 times per week is very effective at stress reduction, reduction in cortisol and improvement in ketosis.
Point of Focus: The goal is cortisol reduction. This can be done through regular and restful sleep and mild exercise. Chronic elevation in cortisol directly stimulates an increase in insulin by increasing the production of glucose in the body, and cortisol blockaids the thyroid axis. Both of these actions halt the ability to loose weight, amplifies the production of inflammatory hormones and drives weight gain. Cortisol also increases appetite. That’s why many people get significant food cravings when they are under stress (“stress eaters”). Cortisol also indirectly affects the other neuro-hormones of the brain including CRH (corticotrophin releasing hormone), leptin, and neuropeptide Y (NPY). High levels of NPY and CRH and reduced levels of leptin have also been shown to stimulate appetite.
Hopefully, this gives you some starting points and direction to your Ketogenic Lifestyle. If I’ve missed something that you’ve found to be essential, let me know. Its always great to hear what has helped you in your Ketogenic journey. Until next time, pass the butter!!!
